Co-parenting, shared

One calm placefor the two of you to co-parent

A shared custody calendar, shared expenses, and a friendly hand with the messages — all in one tidy place.

Graham keeps the day-to-day running smoothly, so the time and energy goes to the kids, not the admin. On WhatsApp, Telegram or SMS — whatever you both already use.

BeforeAfter Graham

"So are we ever sorting out Saturday or not?"

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Getting started

One of you can start — the other joins when ready

Set things up at your own pace

Get the calendar and expenses going

Graham sends a warm, neutral invite

Everything's ready the moment they join

No rush. Plenty of couples set things up one at a time. When your co-parent joins, it all links up automatically.

How it works

WhatsApp, Telegram, or SMS — whatever you both use.

All synced. Switch anytime.

Step 1

Set up in a few minutes

Pick your platform. Graham introduces himself and gets your details.

Step 2

Invite your co-parent

They get a friendly message — no app to download, they just tap to join.

Step 3

You're both set up

Shared calendar, shared expenses, and a calm hand with the messages — all in sync for both of you.

What Graham looks after

The everyday bits of co-parenting — handled calmly, in one shared place.

A calmer way to message

When something's tricky to put into words, Graham helps you say it clearly and kindly — so a quick message stays a quick message.

Receipt scanning

Snap a receipt and Graham logs it — school uniforms, medical bills, activities — split and visible to you both. No spreadsheets.

Schedule changes

"Could we swap Thursday?" Tell Graham, he sorts the back-and-forth and updates the shared calendar.

On the same page

Plans, costs and dates in one shared view — so there's less to misread and less to chase.

The difference Graham makes

Calmer messages. Clearer plans. More time for the kids.

	Without Graham	With Graham
Messaging	Easy to overthink the wording	Graham helps you say it warmly
Expenses	Forgotten receipts, fuzzy totals	One shared record, always up to date
Changing plans	Lots of back-and-forth	Sorted in a couple of taps
Staying in the loop	Things slip through	Graham keeps it moving
Day-to-day admin	Scattered	In one place
How it feels	Bit of a slog	Calm and sorted

Messaging

Without GrahamEasy to overthink the wording

With GrahamGraham helps you say it warmly

Expenses

Without GrahamForgotten receipts, fuzzy totals

With GrahamOne shared record, always up to date

Changing plans

Without GrahamLots of back-and-forth

With GrahamSorted in a couple of taps

Staying in the loop

Without GrahamThings slip through

With GrahamGraham keeps it moving

Day-to-day admin

Without GrahamScattered

With GrahamIn one place

How it feels

Without GrahamBit of a slog

With GrahamCalm and sorted

Your shared home base

One calm, shared view for the two of you — the custody calendar, shared expenses with a running balance, and what’s coming up. On your phone or the web, the same for you both.

Graham shared dashboard — children, custody calendar, shared expenses and what's coming up for both parents

Graham expenses on mobile — shared costs, balance and approvals

Graham custody calendar on mobile — who has the kids each day

At-a-glance overviewShared expenses & balanceCustody calendar

Your trust matters to us

We understand you're sharing sensitive information about your family. That's why we take privacy seriously.

Your messages are private

What you say to Graham stays between you and Graham — he passes on what matters, in your own calm words.

UK GDPR compliant

Your data is protected under UK law. You can export or delete your data at any time.

ICO registered

We are registered with the UK Information Commissioner's Office (Ref: 00012977253).

Read our full Privacy Policy to learn more about how we protect your data.

Simple, shared pricing

One plan covers both of you. Start free, cancel anytime.

Solo Premium

For getting started on your own

£119/year

30-day free trial

Incident Journal
Message Drafting
Neutral Invites to co-parent
Personal custody calendar
Expense planning
Voice message support

Start Solo

Links up free within 30 days when your co-parent joins

Couple

For the two of you, together

£179/year

30-day free trial

Everything in Solo, plus:
AI-powered mediation
Shared custody calendar
Expense splitting & settlements
Message relay between parents
Both parents included

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Common questions

Everything you need to know about Graham.

One of you can start and invite the other — Graham sends a friendly, neutral invite, and there's nothing for them to download. One subscription covers you both.

What you say to Graham stays private. He passes on the practical details — dates, times, amounts — in calm, clear wording.

Everything lives in one shared place — calendar, expenses, plans — so less slips through. And when something's tricky to word, Graham gives you a calm hand.

No. One subscription covers both parents. You sign up and invite your co-parent - they don't pay anything.

Cancel anytime from your dashboard. No questions asked. Your data can be exported or deleted per GDPR.

Yes. As you tell Graham about missed handovers, late payments or other incidents, he keeps each one with its date in a private log. When you need it, he can compile everything you've logged into one clear PDF to share with your solicitor. It only ever contains your own account of what happened.

Logging incidents and previewing your record is free. The compiled PDF is a one-off £5.99 (UK) / R149 (SA) whenever you want to export it — no subscription, and your co-parent doesn't need to be involved.

No. Graham is a shield, not a weapon. The record only ever contains the facts you report yourself, kept accurately with dates so nothing gets lost or disputed. It's there to reduce stress and give you a calm, organised account — not to attack anyone.

What parents say

"Having one shared place for the schedule and the money has made the whole week calmer. We're just on the same page now."

Sarah M.

London

"The expense tracking has eliminated so many arguments. We both see the same numbers. No more disputes about who paid for what."

James T.

Birmingham

"Schedule changes used to turn into arguments. Now Graham just coordinates it neutrally. It's made things so much calmer."

Emma L.

Manchester

"We're on much better terms than we used to be, and Graham helps us keep it that way — the calendar and expenses are just there, no fuss."

Rachel P.

Bristol

Ready to make co-parenting calmer?

Set up your shared calendar and expenses, get an easy hand with the messages — and put the focus back on the kids.

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